²⁸ The Heart, {Mind}, Of The Righteous Studies How To Answer, But The ‘Mouth’ Of The Wicked Pours Out Evil Things, (Proverbs 15:28).

I Was Taught In Sales That If Someone Tells You That They Bought The Worse Product On The Market, Don’t Agree With Them; As You Would Be Saying That They Made A Stupid Choice, And Implying That They Are Dumb As A Rock~!  Instead, If You Can’t Say Something Positive, Then At Least Ask A Question That Can Be Turned Into Something Positive Like, “What Do You Like Best About The ‘What-Cha-Ma-Call-It’?”  Then Compliment Them On Their Choice.

But, It Would Be Better If You Could Say Something To Reinforce Their Self-Esteem, Like, “Oh, I’ve Read That A Lot Of Folks Like The “What-Cha-Ma-Call-It”.  It Would Be Best, If You Could Actually Say Something Positive About It.  Let’s Say They Own A Ford Truck, And You Sell Honda Trucks.  You Could Say, “That’s A Great Truck ~ Built Ford Tough~!”  You Will Not Only Win Them Over To You, But Reinforce That They Make Good Choices.

Now, You Can Add In The Benefits Of Your Product, Not By Throwing The Other Product Under The Bus, But By Reinforcing Their Beliefs In That Product, “Yeah, Fords Are Pretty Tough.  On The Honda, You Can Connect Your iPhone or Android Directly With The Built-In FM Transmitter Into The FM Radio And Watch TV On Your CellPhone And Listen Over The Vehicle’s Speakers Using SlingBox Solo”.

In The End, They Will Think Much Higher Of You And Your Product; Because You Thought Higher Of Them, And Complimented Them On Their Choices.  They Will Trust You Enough To Buy From You.  You’ll See Them Leaving With Your Product, And You’ll Feel Great Also, Because You Were Honest With Them, (Leviticus 19:36). 

I Like What Is Said In Ephesians 4:29 In The Amplified Bible Classic Edition, Where Yahweh Said To, “Let No Foul or Polluting Language, Nor Evil Word Nor Unwholesome or Worthless Talk [Ever] Come Out Of Your ‘Mouth’, But Only Such [Speech] As Is Good And Beneficial To The Spiritual Progress Of Others, As Is Fitting To The Need And The Occasion, That It May Be A Blessing And Give Grace (Yahweh’s Favor) To Those Who Hear It; (KJV ~ Impart Grace To The Hearers)”.  In Other Words, Give Them A Way Out~!  Don’t Pin Someone Down On An Issue, Where They Have To Admit To A Fault.

⁷ Then Moses Called Joshua And Said To Him In The Sight Of ALL Israel, “Be Strong And Of Good Courage, For You Must Go With This People To The Land Which Yahweh Has Sworn To Their Fathers To Give Them, And You Shall Cause Them To Inherit It.
⁸ And Yahweh, He Is The One Who Goes Before You.  He Will Be With You, He Will Not Leave You Nor Forsake You;
Do Not Fear Nor Be Dismayed.

Joshua 1:9; 1 Chronicles 28:20;
Isaiah 41:10-12; Joel 3:10;
1 Corinthians 16:13
or Ephesians 6:10

Entry Here To See How Many Times Yahweh Has Said, “I Am With You” or, “Yahweh Is With You”, or, “Yahweh Was With A Certain Person”.   The Scriptures Didn’t Say, “He Was With Yahweh”, But, “Yahweh Was With Him”.  How Can You Be Discouraged If You Know That Yahweh That Made The Heavens And The Earth Is Going To Be With You Wherever You Go?  Did The Words Of Encouragement Work?  (See Joshua 23:14; And Joshua 21:45 Below).

Behold, This Day I Am Going The Way Of ALL The Earth.  And You Know In ALL Your Hearts And In ALL Your Souls That Not One Thing Has Failed Of ALL The Good Things Which Yahweh Your God Spoke Concerning You.  All Have Come To Pass For You; Not One Word Of Them Has Failed.  (Joshua 23:14).

Not A Word Failed Of Any Good Thing Which Yahweh Had ‘Spoken’ To The House Of Israel.  All Came To Pass, (Joshua 21:45).

The Power Of Exhorting.  Moses Only Said To Joshua The Things That He Had Heard From Yahweh About Joshua, (Notice The Commonality Between Deuteronomy 3:28: And Deuteronomy 31:7-8).  A Word “Fitly Spoken” And In Due Season Is Like Apples Of Gold In Settings Of Silver.  Proverbs 25:11.

See Also These Words Of Encouragement That Yahweh Said Personally To Joshua.

Deuteronomy 7:24; Deuteronomy 11:25; Joshua 1:5 ~ ( It’s Like Good, Better, Best).

And The Conditional Promise Of Joshua 1:8 Is Also Pretty Cool, “For Then You Shall Make Your Way Prosperous, And Then You Shall Have Good Success”.

Okay, ALL That Was Necessary To Say, So That When The Person Whose, “Language Of Love”, Is ‘Words Of Affirmation’, That You Don’t Blurt Out, “You Should Have Got A ‘Thing-a-Ma-Jig’”.  So, Now Instead Of Getting A ‘Word Of Affirmation’ That Their Love Tank Needs, They Get A Scolding Telling Them Just How Bad Their Choices Are.  They Go Away Hurting On The Inside And Feeling Empty, And Will Probably Find Some Sort Of Coping Mechanism To Deal With This Wound That They Have No Control Over .  (Enter Here To Find Out More About The “Language Of Love”).